What's your exact CPU model?

This is something that's already planned and will also be directly integrated with Rime in order to allow server owners to strip their game of unecessary data, significantly bringing down the file size, which should allow for easier deployment across multiple servers.

I think I might know the reason why.. I cant update my win7 with the platform update 1 in the link. I run it but it says it cannot update my windows. my dxdiag says I have ver 11 You can try updating your windows using Windows Update (from the Control Panel). If the reason you can't update your win...

Please take a look here and here for possible solutions.
If that doesn't help, please follow the instructions in the first post I linked and post a reply there with your results.

What's the crash ID it produces?

Windows Server 2008 R2 should be fine, it's 2008 that's not recommended.
A thing you could try is running it as an administrator.

Regardless though, since you're on a machine with graphics output you should be able to just run vu.exe normally and activate via the default EA activation method.

You can double-tap and hold W to sprint.

I would've added an IRC client which connects to our channel, but then even more antiviruses would freak the fuck out.
I could also integrate it with our backend (since it supports that), but there are higher priorities right now.

Please try to make sure that you've played BF3 online at least once, and that your Origin profile is not private, and try again.
If that doesn't help, please let me know.

What's your Origin name?